איך אני יכולה לעזור?

I am a 37 year old woman,my partner is a 54 year old man.Last november he had surgery to remove his prostate due to cancer.A month AND a half ago he started taking Ciallis to help him get errect.The pills don't seem to be working,and neither did the Viagra.We are both very sexual people AND we share a deep love,but I feel that this is starting to put a strain on our relationship.I am very understanding AND am willing to do anything to overcome this.But my partner is feeling pathetic AND depressed AND has started voicing his regret at having the prostate removed.He doesn't enjoy his orgasms,and penetration is sometimes impossible for us.Are there any other drugs that could help?Is there any mental treatment that could ease the strain?What should I do to make him feel better about himself?I am very much in need of advice

sally שלום אני מקווה שזה בסדר שאני עונה לך בעברית . אם הכדורים לא עוזרים יש למעשה 3 אלטרנטיבות נוספות : 1. הזרקה עצמית של חמרים מרחיבי כלי דם . ההזרקה היא פשוטה כמעט ללא כאבים בכלל, לרוב המטופל מזריק בעצמו , אבל גם בת הזוג יכולה ללמוד להזריק. 2. מכשיר ואקום . 3. ניתוח השתלת תותב לפין. ד"ר אריאלי

alprostadil בנר זעיר שמוכנס לפין . פועל (לפי כמה כתבות) עבור 30 - 40 אחוז מהגברים שאינם מגיבים לויאגרה ודומיו ואינם רוצים להזריק.

There is a lot that can be done. First of all you should find out whether there is a sexological clinic at the medical center where your partner had his Op. The advantage would be that they can easily obtain his medical data AND base their adveice thereupon The condition is not at all unusual. Unfortunately a considerable percentage of men undergoing radical prostatetectomy suffer from erectile dysfunction. Consequently sexological clinics at those centers have in most cases good answers for such conditions If your partner has partial erection AND you read Hebrew I should like you to look at http://www.angelfire.com/bc3/schiffer/tnuha.htm The position described there has the advantage that it leaves the hands free for expressing the physical love you probably would like to show for one another Feel free to come back with any questions if you feel like it Let us know if you read Hebrew